A Better YOU

Healing is not easy. It’s messy, painful, and often feels like you are being broken all over again. Beneath the pain is something quietly rebuilding, something soft yet powerful that keeps pushing you forward even when you feel like you have nothing left. There are moments when the pain is so deep it seems impossible to breathe. You wonder if you will ever feel whole again. In those moments, it’s easy to believe that the weight you carry will never lift, that the wounds will never close. But healing is not about never feeling the pain again — it’s about learning to live with it, to carry it differently. Sometimes healing begins in silence, when the noise of the world fades, and its just you and your thoughts. Those moments can be terrifying. The pain feels louder when there’s nothing to distract you from it. But it’s in that stillness where the first crack of healing starts. It’s in the quiet where you begin to hear the whispers of your own strength, buried under all the hurt. You begi

  Hate it or not we will grow older. We will never be at this age again. Isn’t it interesting how everything around us changes as time goes by? We often wish things would stay the same, but they naturally evolve and fade. Think about the clothes we used to wear — they don’t fit us anymore. Our childhood toys, once cherished, have become mere memories, symbols of a time when our biggest worries were playtime and snack time. The experiences we once held close can feel fragmented, with some fading away entirely like distant echoes. The places we’ve visited have changed, too; they may look different or hold new stories that aren’t ours to tell. The photos we took serve as bittersweet reminders of our journeys and growth, capturing fleeting moments that now feel like snapshots of another life. Each picture tells a story of who we were and the people we shared those times with, yet they also highlight the inevitable passage of time. Just as these things evolve, so do we. The phase of life we

  You May Be Better Without Some People  : People come and go. As you grow older, your priorities and characters will change. Accept that growing means you will have to leave a lot of things behind, no matter how hard and painful.  You Don’t Have to Accept Yourself for Who You Are  : You can work on yourself to change your bad qualities, improve yourself and grow into a better person. No One Will Care for You Better Than You Will :  We are all born into this world to find our purpose and fulfil our own aspirations. Everyone is too busy looking out for themselves and don’t have the time to care about you. Sometimes, Bad Things Happen to Good People :  You cannot control everything that happens in your life. What you can do, however, is use every experience as instrument of learning and transformation towards living your destiny rather than playing victim to them. Nothing is Permanent in this World :  Spend more quality time with your parents. Don’t waste your chance to ask for their adv

Maturity is when you don’t force people to choose you. Maturity is when you’ve accepted that such is life, and that not everything will go accordingly to your plan, and not everyone/everything you love will love you right back. I used to be besotted with this one guy a long time ago, and when things turned sour between us and we no longer speak, I would kick and scream, repeating the question of “why” over and over again to my friends and family (much to their annoyance and dismay). I just couldn’t comprehend why things fell apart, and why I wasn’t the one he chose in the end. Admittedly, I used to desperately cling onto any opportunity I could get just to “accidentally” bump into him, just for a sliver of hope that we’ll have a second alone and I could spill to him the ocean of things I’ve buried within me for the entirety of our complicated relationship. I wanted to tell him that he’s made me feel an inexplicable way no one has ever been able to bring out of me before. I wanted to te

They don't seek online attention with food photos. Mature people don’t feel the need to post pictures of their meals on social media to impress others. They value their privacy and keep things like what they eat to themselves. They think before acting. Mature individuals carefully consider their actions before taking steps. They avoid conflict and forgive easily. Instead of engaging in unnecessary drama, mature people stay calm and let things go quickly. They love genuinely, not for shallow reasons. True love for mature people goes beyond physical attraction—they care deeply for their partner. They value family and loved ones. Mature people focus on building strong relationships and avoiding harmful behaviours that could destroy them. They are self-reliant but understand when to seek help. While mature individuals are independent, they also recognize the importance of relying on others when needed. They manage their finances well and are trustworthy. Maturity shows through responsi

1. Speak less, listen more. React less, observe more closely. 2. Be kind, but don't waste time proving it. 3. Effort always outweighs promises. 4. In the end, we all become memories and tales. 5. You are your own sanctuary; take care of yourself. 6. If it feels too heavy, let it go. 7. The right people will always stay. 8. You never truly fail, you only learn. 9. Improve yourself, for your own sake. 10. Live fully before life slips away. 11. Sometimes we lose people because we love them too much. 12. Life is filled with unexpected farewells. 13. It's tough to find genuine people in a world full of pretense. 14. Some changes are painful but essential.